They do not usually say it. They imply it with their behaviour. They will reward the child when he/she needs their parents and potentially show their disappointment when the child becomes more independent. All this does not happen consciously.

Executive Coach at www.theleaderpath.com. Former Google business leader. Fast Company & Thrive Global Contributor.

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